January 2011
27 posts
Let's stay the same.
I think I’m content staying the same for 2011. Yeah. For the last few months, I’ve been taking care of myself, being a good friend (I hope), trying new things, and living a fuller happier life. The difference between today and tomorrow for me? Nil. I’m just going to keep on going.
So I hope I spend 2011 like the end of 2010: Happy.
That said, 2011 hopefully will be filled to...
December 2010
19 posts
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Music, Love & Other Drugs
There are certain albums, songs, and artists that are so intrinsically linked to another person they are nearly unlistenable. Sometimes I play those albums when I miss the person or when I give myself permission to think about them. But mostly I avoid them.
Yankee Hotel Foxtrot was falling in love with Alex … Another Side of Bob Dylan was the soundtrack for the falling out of. M83’s...
I had my date with the Lawyer last night. It was a fucking hit and I drove home this morning feeling like a baller. Hopefully we will kick it again soon.
[Just got a text - kicking it again soon]
I am looking forward to 2011. This is gonna be my year decade.
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Killer date planned for Sunday or Monday. Or both.
Yeah, chemistry.
Courage won tonight. I’ve started flirt chatting with the lawyer and I held up just great. I think the glass of shiraz helped but I’d also like to think part of it was my wits.
And can I just say … damn, he is dreamy. Swoon.
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I don’t know shit about men or dating - obviously - but I do know this:...
– M.H.
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Merry fitness and a happy new rear!
– My spin instructor Leza. Mantra over the holidays!
Also, I’ve lost 15 lbs. since my break-up on Oct. 24. I’m going to the gym 5-6 times a week and eating well. Every day I feel like I wake up and re-discover how strong I am. I’m taking back my life and my self. Thanks for the...
I hope he is doing okay.
A linger of hope & a shadow of doubt.
Sometimes I wonder if my mind is just tricked. After spending 3 out of 5 years in a long distance relationship, I wonder if right now the reason I feel okay is because I’ve been conditioned to be without him for such long periods of time. So a part of me doesn’t understand that no, this isn’t a 3 month absence while I am in Scotland or a 4-week stretch because we can’t make...
Dear jag,
Please get the hell offa Tumblr. I showed you Tumblr two years ago and you joined hesitantly to “try it out.” I think you updated 5 times in a year and haven’t updated since.
Now today you decide you are going to start using it again. That’s fine - you’re allowed. But your posts are all content that relates to inside jokes between us or things that are...
I’m feeling really good about things right now. I feel I’m out of the murky waters of the break-up and looking forward to all the wonderful things that will happen next in my life. Whatever those things may be.